Sorry to hear that you guys.

All I can tell you is, you can and will recover from this if you decide you want to. Colleen and I had a complete loss back in 2002 or 2003 when we went camping for a 3-day weekend and came home to find the GFCI had been tripped by the painters power-washing the house we were renting at the time...and of course that had to have happened on the Friday we left...and we didn't come home until late Monday. By then everything in the tank was dead, fish floating, corals all dead. We didn't have the club then (hadn't found out about it until 2004 or 2005), and didn't know we could still re-use the rock and sand. So, we started over completely from scratch.
Enter the club and we've started over a couple more times as we have gone bigger and bigger (although not completely from scratch). Our bout with AEFW nearly wiped us out of coarls again in 2008, and we are now - knock on wood - just finally getting back to where we feel like we have everything under control again.
If you decide to continue on, stick with what you have. You know it works, and it grows things really well. You guys had a beautiful tank, and I know you can recreate that in the new home. We have frags for you of things we've gotten from you, as well as frags of things we have that you may not have had. All you have to do is let us know when you are ready.

That's the real joy of this club...a support system for when the chips are down. I wish Nacho had called me, we were home Friday and I could have easily run down the hill to give him a hand. In the future, please PLEASE don't hesitate to yell if you need a hand. You guys have helped us out, as have many of the other club members. We are always willing to return the favor if we are able.
Good luck with the decision making process. And, remember the hurt of the loss will fade with time. Don't make a decision too quickly - you will have to live with it for a long time to come. If things didn't make it, you have as much time as you want/need to decide if you want to take on getting things up and going again or not.
Let us know if there's anything else you need help with.
Nate